As a believer In Christ never look for peace from friends or within family. True christianity will always cause a division in every area of life. If you are a man or a woman who is the "head" of your house, don't look for peace within your house when the rest of your family are non believers. Don't quarrel or "put" your foot down and demand anything from them. Jesus told Pilot that He could call down a legion of His Father's angels to fight for Him, yet He didn't. God gives His people peace In Christ, we give it away when we complain. It is one thing to vent, another thing to ask God for help: then be still, for It Is God Who ordains the boundaries and habitations of all men.